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0:13 hello and welcome to live love by design
0:17 TV I’m Karen Chaston the founder of live
0:21 love by design a place where you can
0:24 learn to live in love each and every day
0:26 to love who you are to love your lives
0:30 and to create your dreams faster and
0:33 today I have this most amazing guest
0:36 Maura Sweeney living happy inside and
0:41 out that is her motto isn’t that amazing
0:44 so male welcome Karen thanks for having
0:49 me works well with who I am and what I’m
0:55 all about living that love by design
0:58 exactly and as our viewers already now
1:01 we have four pillars that I’ve broken
1:03 the nine areas of life into all about
1:06 you all about your relationships all
1:09 about your expertise and all about your
1:12 world creation and more it comes under
1:15 the all about you and isn’t that a
1:17 perfect way to start because life should
1:19 be all about you what do you think maura
1:21 I do in fact my website is called maura
1:24 for you because I’m constantly inviting
1:27 people to go in to think about their
1:30 lives to think about their relationships
1:31 to think about their own ideas rather
1:34 than always adopting the ideas of
1:35 someone else and to discover how much of
1:38 what their life is is a product of the
1:40 way they think and their intentions and
1:44 the way in which they view themselves
1:45 and the world around them so this
1:48 couldn’t have been like a better
1:50 orchestrated place for us to chat today
1:52 okay so let’s go back we went to your
1:56 earlier one before you actually
1:58 discovered these what I like to call
2:00 live love gems this wisdom tell me about
2:03 who you were when you grew up I share
2:07 this a lot because I believe there are
2:09 such gems to be fans in our early
2:12 childhood I lived in a town one square
2:15 mile I could see the sky lights of
2:17 Manhattan across the across the river
2:20 all I wanted to do was get out
2:23 I wanted to get on airplanes and travel
2:26 the world and make friends in every
2:28 culture and yet my life experience was
2:31 very different I was often kept indoors
2:33 I was watched very closely very strictly
2:38 and I was brought up to be a lawyer and
2:40 oftentimes instead of being with friends
2:42 and frivolity I was kept indoors playing
2:45 things like the piano and doing artwork
2:46 and writing thank-you notes so I had a
2:49 big disconnect and yet something inside
2:52 of me Karen was always about the dreams
2:55 of something happy lively and joyful and
3:00 connective what stops people from being
3:03 happy too even in my case I had loads of
3:08 fear as a child I am I faced a lot of
3:11 death it wasn’t my own maybe but I had a
3:14 lot of people around me that died and it
3:17 terrorized me of totally afraid
3:22 everybody around me was dying and so
3:24 that was an awareness I had and it not
3:27 wasn’t necessarily something I could
3:29 speak about so yes I had the spectre of
3:31 death that was always over me but I
3:35 remember also always feeling like I was
3:37 somehow chained to an identity that
3:41 wasn’t me so I wanted to get out of the
3:44 town that I grew up in I wanted to
3:46 travel the world I wanted to connect
3:48 with friends and I wanted really to go
3:50 out and dance and yet my whole identity
3:52 was locked in this this matter of
3:55 wearing turtlenecks dress as you say I
3:57 got one on now no but it was just the
4:03 idea of being book smart and very polite
4:05 and very dignified not that that’s wrong
4:08 with me or that that that’s not a piece
4:10 of me but it was in all of me Karen and
4:13 so I spent decades sort of making the
4:16 best of where I came from and utilizing
4:18 it all because it’s all works for good
4:20 when you expect it to but the other
4:22 piece was was all floating a lot of
4:24 things that didn’t belong to me that
4:26 weren’t part of my identity and that’s
4:28 why I’m so passionate today about
4:31 sharing some of those ideas and those
4:33 thoughts and those stories with other
4:34 people who were struggling
4:37 yes I can tell you’re good people
4:40 you’ve obviously looked back at your
4:43 life and because I’m a great believer
4:45 that we are the sum of all of our
4:48 experiences and some of them may not be
4:51 an idea but they are our life lessons
4:53 and there may be some experiences where
4:54 we turn around we go okay That’s not me
4:56 but I’ve learned this from it and and
5:00 then we can carry on so what do you feel
5:03 that you really wanted to find out who
5:08 you were the real you not the not the
5:13 person that your parents and
5:15 grandparents wanted you to be because I
5:18 knew she was happy and because I knew
5:20 she was free oh wow that’s a and that
5:23 was it that was it I felt unhappy I used
5:26 to cry all the time as a little girl and
5:28 I felt very contained and I’m a I
5:31 actually made a decision as a child
5:33 knowing there were certain things I
5:34 couldn’t do then but I said I’m going to
5:37 grow up to be happy and free and by free
5:39 that meant to me free to be myself yes
5:42 so how did you find the courage to do
5:45 this little by little but a big breaking
5:51 point came for me and maybe your
5:53 listeners could understand this they
5:55 have there’s maybe later in life I was
5:57 23 years old I’d gone to school to
6:00 college I got a degree in political
6:01 science my family always wanted me to be
6:04 a lawyer and that was all that I was
6:06 designed to be so I took out loans I
6:08 started law school I was at the midway
6:09 point and one day Karen I couldn’t get
6:13 up out of my chair to drive myself to
6:16 class my husband I was married at the
6:18 time I still AM
6:19 he came home from work and he said Maura
6:22 I thought you’re at school I opened up
6:24 my mouth Karen and no words came out I
6:26 had literally lost my voice though that
6:29 the weight that I was carrying in my
6:32 life knowing I had a 40 year career that
6:34 I didn’t want it was it was so heavy I
6:37 couldn’t move so I left law school and I
6:39 thought I have no idea of what I’m gonna
6:40 do next
6:41 but I’m gonna find something it gives
6:43 life can we go like I said yeah the fact
6:46 you lost your voice do you feel that it
6:50 was the you
6:51 verse saying well if you’re not going to
6:52 use your voice to create your life let’s
6:56 lose it for lower
6:59 I’ve never been asked that question but
7:01 I know the voice is so big my voice I
7:04 believe early on was squelch and I think
7:07 I have been finding it more and more
7:09 sheíll I even show you this when I was
7:12 27 I had my entire thyroid removed see I
7:16 went whoa II would have a lot to say
7:18 about that I’m sure Karen I’ll tell you
7:21 something further I went home when I was
7:23 in my late 20s hadn’t had my daughter
7:25 yet I was working in a corporate job
7:27 that required me to use my voice for
7:29 public speaking I was at home for nine
7:32 days so it was like two weekends in a
7:34 week do you know every one of those days
7:36 until the day I went home I had
7:38 laryngitis
7:39 that’s curious no voice say we don’t
7:42 look at our body for the signs on are we
7:46 on the right path it’s to start looking
7:49 at what is happening to you physically
7:51 you can say is this relating to some
7:56 area of my life am I’m not doing this so
7:59 it’s so very clear that your voice and
8:02 laryngitis all because you weren’t
8:05 speaking your truth I have to totally
8:10 agree and actually here’s an interesting
8:12 thing everything I do with my writing my
8:14 podcasting my speaking it’s all
8:17 establishing my voice and I could say
8:19 it’s incrementally and this may sound
8:22 odd somehow Karen I’m 60 right now but I
8:25 think from my early childhood I must
8:27 have had some ideas that I did not feel
8:29 free to express forget about parents I
8:32 was thinking more in terms of society
8:34 and acceptability so what I discovered
8:36 is that I’m constantly moving the
8:40 envelope and saying more and more of
8:42 things that were always within me but I
8:44 know that my ultimate healing of even a
8:47 cost that I carry with me will
8:48 eventually go away and again it says it
8:51 goes back to the voice being true to who
8:53 we are and being able to fully express
8:55 all that’s within us and I think that
8:58 there’s such a marrying up of emotional
9:00 health physical health spiritual health
9:04 relationship health yes anything it all
9:08 comes back together and it’s another
9:10 saying that you’d love to say
9:11 I think you’ve been searching for is
9:13 already within you now even though you
9:17 started your journey of self-discovery
9:18 at 23 did you realize that then you know
9:24 I sensed that there was some spiritual
9:29 essence within me I would say my
9:31 connection to God to source and because
9:34 I couldn’t go outwardly to get my
9:38 answers as a child and because I had so
9:41 many people died including my
9:42 grandfather who really was such a a
9:45 strong presence very trustworthy I used
9:49 to go to heaven to God to whatever and
9:52 the thing was I would get answers and I
9:54 would follow those leadings that’s why I
9:57 tell you I think a lot of things I knew
9:58 in the past I wouldn’t always feel so
10:00 free to speak about but that is why I
10:03 sincerely believe that we can either run
10:06 after the world and seek after the
10:08 things that the world claims they’ve got
10:10 waiting for us or we can be quiet rest
10:14 and trust that the answer is already
10:16 there you know even in the end I tell
10:20 you Louisiana teams within you a lot of
10:24 people don’t ask those questions to find
10:27 the answers sure hmm
10:32 yeah our society really hasn’t taught us
10:34 that they’ve taught us to run after the
10:36 gold run after the money buy the latest
10:38 car get the guy get the girl
10:41 correct yes a lot those don’t they don’t
10:44 fulfill and they don’t if they’re the
10:46 wrong things and they’re not answering
10:48 to our souls purpose and desires then
10:51 they are the wrong things so all we need
10:53 to do is find out what what do I
10:56 personally seek what do I want and where
10:59 do I find my peace and my fulfillment
11:01 and my expression yes so what are your
11:06 little tools that you advise people when
11:09 you share your wisdom with them Oh a
11:14 couple of things one thing I’ve done my
11:16 whole life I did this run ahead my
11:17 corporate career I would always take
11:20 time early in the morning and I would
11:22 use that time to be by myself to
11:25 to listen quietly to talk to God
11:27 whatever to station my mind and my
11:30 thought life and my energies in a
11:34 positively inclined zone so that the
11:38 world was not bombarding me but I was
11:40 sort of establishing the atmosphere of
11:43 my world that’s the first thing so we
11:45 finally that comes back to something I
11:47 always say we geez and we all hear it on
11:50 the plane put your own oxygen mask on
11:53 first before you assist others I’ve
11:55 discovered that is a daily requirement
11:58 and I’m so glad to hear that that’s how
12:00 you start your day each day as well
12:02 don’t you feel more energized don’t you
12:04 feel more productive when you start your
12:07 day that way compared to the days when
12:09 you don’t yes and less confused or less
12:12 hairy
12:13 definitely yes no more clarity yes I
12:17 would say so you realize by your ask me
12:19 these questions you’re making me think
12:20 even beyond where I am today because I
12:23 do always cuz they learn and grow so
12:26 well together and it is about us making
12:29 a difference together it’s not about us
12:32 being The Lone Ranger don’t you feel
12:34 that yes oh you know and that’s why I
12:36 love conversations like this because I
12:38 can be an inspiring personality but when
12:41 I’m in conversations like this I get
12:44 more inspired and there’s a
12:45 back-and-forth that it’s very dynamic
12:48 very dynamic we leave ourselves up more
12:53 towards a higher self which is what I
12:55 love yes and I have to tell you you just
12:58 challenged me because although I would
13:00 take time for myself to establish my
13:03 thoughts
13:03 pairen I don’t always take time for
13:06 myself to minister to myself in other
13:10 ways like you know some women they just
13:11 oh they’ll go out I’ll get a massage I
13:13 was never that type so I’m I’m taking
13:15 that as today’s cue that I need to find
13:17 additional ways you should do to be good
13:20 for myself yo you you seem like you’re
13:22 more of a gamer than a receiver and we
13:24 need to learn how to receive and and I
13:28 feel it in the times that we do because
13:30 we’re both baby boomers and I think with
13:33 the with the movements that have come
13:35 along it was so lost a little bit
13:37 that nurturing of ourselves it’s like no
13:40 we’re tough I’m going to work and I’m
13:42 doing this and I’m gonna climb the
13:44 corporate ladder sure I might do it like
13:46 a bloke and it might not work for me but
13:49 we need to take that time to you know
13:52 come back to who we are innately and
13:55 there’s nothing wrong with that and a
13:57 lot of women think oh no I can’t be that
13:59 person I’ve got to be this other person
14:01 it’s like no nurturing yourself is such
14:04 a great way for you to learn how to
14:07 receive you know that’s very astute and
14:11 as soon as you spoke that because I know
14:13 we were definitely in so much of the
14:15 same age bracket there was a mentality
14:18 that I remember I brought up to myself I
14:20 was about 11 years old and I made a
14:23 decision I was never going to depend on
14:25 a man now it wasn’t like I considered
14:26 myself this feminist they didn’t even
14:29 have the word back then but I didn’t
14:31 want to depend on anyone so what that
14:33 meant is I took on a lot of masculine
14:36 tendencies which required that I would
14:38 not minister or nurture myself
14:41 interesting so thank you for that Karen
14:44 I’m sure it was not only good for me but
14:45 some listener today will pick up on it
14:47 as well I’m sure I’ll and I’ve just got
14:49 the tingles so now that’s gone stick so
14:51 that conversation was for everyone you
14:56 asked me four to two suggestions or two
15:00 tips there’s a second one I’d love to
15:02 offer not only just taking time in the
15:04 morning to listen and to set your own
15:07 your own atmosphere and your own fault
15:10 life but at the end of every day to
15:13 review five minutes so I would just
15:28 review my day five minutes every day to
15:30 say how did I feel today what where did
15:33 I feel my best where did I feel my
15:35 freest where did I feel my most
15:37 energized and excited and even inspired
15:41 and then I would also say where did I
15:44 not feel that way today was I in a
15:47 conversation with someone that brought
15:48 me down was I around toxic personality
15:51 was I agreeing to something I don’t like
15:53 and so I would use the end of the day to
15:58 take inventory of what made me feel
16:00 happy and energized on the inside I
16:02 always talked about is your inner smile
16:03 or what didn’t make me feel that way and
16:06 then from that point again it’s going
16:09 within to say well the next time this
16:11 happens this is how I will recalibrate
16:14 and I’m telling you that is a very good
16:17 way of self-leadership
16:19 yes that is amazing and it’s very
16:22 similar to knowing so I asked myself
16:24 three questions the first one is what
16:27 did i do today that I would do exactly
16:29 the same next time the next one what did
16:33 i do today that I would do differently
16:36 next time and the third one is what did
16:40 I learn today Eva about myself someone
16:43 else or the universe
16:46 very similar excellent they are very
16:50 very similar yours is just a little bit
16:53 more organized than mine you could tell
16:54 them I’m alone I bet you’re not I love
16:57 you actually went more into the feeling
17:00 and more into this is what I want to
17:03 invoke in me and and I have this I
17:05 always like to you know to transition as
17:08 you go through your day so make sure
17:10 that you know you take time when you go
17:13 say from a meeting you know back to your
17:16 desk to do something take time to
17:17 transition out of that and then another
17:19 time is when you know as you go home
17:21 transition out of it just a couple of
17:24 minutes doing some breathing closing
17:26 your eyes just refocusing leaving the
17:29 stress behind and especially before you
17:31 walk into the door so that you are
17:33 bringing your best me as I like to say
17:35 into that door you’re not bringing the
17:38 drudgery of the day or the excitement of
17:41 the day you’re coming in as your you
17:43 know you know into a new role I guess is
17:46 the best thing because we play so many
17:47 roles in one day I totally agree and you
17:50 know I think the same thing is I could
17:52 be so immersed in what I’m doing and
17:54 everything else is somewhere else but
17:57 then when it’s time for me to make that
17:58 transition I refocus and I’m totally
18:02 present in that new place and I think
18:04 that’s great for relationships for the
18:07 opportunity of work versus free time and
18:10 it does make a difference it really does
18:12 yes and we’re blessed being married long
18:15 time so how many years have you been met
18:16 she my husband and I met in college in
18:20 1977 we are now together for 41 years I
18:24 was like how did that happen how did we
18:26 get to my age we got married in 1981
18:29 okay well my husband and I we met in 74
18:34 but he was too old for me then I was 16
18:37 and he was 23 but then we met in 1878
18:43 and where they made 40 years this year
18:46 so he’s going this week
18:48 thank you Mark but now I say because my
18:50 husband he’s six and a half years older
18:53 than me and now I I said to him not so
18:55 long ago Joe
18:56 I said do you remember when we first met
18:59 you were too old for me me when yes I
19:01 said I think it’s happening again that’s
19:13 crazy
19:14 so obviously you two have grown together
19:17 because you can’t be married and
19:18 together for that long with you know who
19:21 you were in your 20s to who you are now
19:25 in your early 60s there’s no way you are
19:27 the same person and if you are there’s
19:29 something wrong we need to talk tomorrow
19:31 and you need to figure out you know what
19:33 it what you’re actually doing wrong and
19:35 I don’t really like the word wrong but
19:37 maybe some improvements that you might
19:39 like to look at your life so what do you
19:42 feel is the key to a long relationship
19:45 especially a marriage one well
19:49 can I say when number one is having the
19:51 right spouse but I will tell you this as
19:56 much as I never contemplated marriage it
19:58 was something I was not interested in
20:00 the very first time I met my husband I
20:03 recognized several attributes about him
20:06 that today 41 years later are the same
20:09 he is comfortable in his own skin I
20:12 remember thinking to myself this man has
20:14 no prejudice he was sincerely interested
20:17 in other people he didn’t have an ego
20:20 and I remember thinking to myself this
20:24 man would let me grow as much as I want
20:25 to grow and that’s I wouldn’t so you
20:29 know what it’s it’s mutual because I
20:32 allow him to grow as much as he wants he
20:34 allows and encourages me to do the same
20:36 we’ve worked together four times even
20:39 though we’ve worked separately we travel
20:41 a lot together and apart we keep the we
20:44 keep growing but it’s our differences
20:47 also that keep everything lively because
20:49 we have different perspectives and we’re
20:51 always sharing with each other and
20:53 there’s a great great amount of respect
20:56 and trust that we have for each other
20:58 and I think that that that is so
21:00 foundational that it exceeds and goes
21:04 beyond any challenges we might have ever
21:06 faced in life I do that because I add my
21:09 40th wedding anniversary I had the two
21:13 boys here and a couple of friends and
21:14 they will met now one of them is married
21:17 he got married last month and and the
21:20 other girlfriend and one of the
21:21 girlfriends said to me she said what is
21:23 the secret to long marriage and I said
21:26 to allow each other to be who they are
21:28 and to grow together
21:33 yeah held to allow each other to grow
21:35 but because so many people just grow
21:37 apart because they just become I feel
21:40 uninteresting and a lot of interested in
21:44 life either they just go into what I
21:47 refer to as a Groundhog Day days and
21:49 they wonder why life isn’t fun well it’s
21:51 not exactly exciting you know I agree I
21:55 agree and I could remember this tooth my
21:57 husband I just saw adventure written
21:59 across his chest I want to be a prep
22:03 school teacher and live in New Jersey
22:04 and I didn’t want to live in New Jersey
22:06 but I could see in him a desire for
22:10 adventure meaning that he was going to
22:11 take some roads that other people hadn’t
22:13 traveled on I did not want the groundhog
22:16 day I didn’t want and that’s you know
22:19 that’s fine for some people it just
22:20 wasn’t good for me and fortunately he
22:22 managed to find a life partner like me
22:25 who was willing to take a journey and to
22:28 go the journey to yeah so what he feels
22:30 the biggest obstacle most of this facing
22:32 life this is it’s coming full circle now
22:36 Karen it’s the biggest obstacle is
22:39 looking at us in the mirror if they were
22:41 willing to go there that’s it because
22:44 think about the world think about human
22:47 nature something happens we want to
22:48 blame this circumstance we want to blame
22:50 that person we want to blame our parents
22:53 who didn’t bring us up perfectly
22:55 there’s always something out there but
22:58 to be able to go and look into the
23:02 mirror of the soul to say what am i
23:05 dealing with here what am I afraid of
23:07 what am i telling myself what am i
23:10 concerned about looking at if we can
23:12 look at ourselves in the mirror and see
23:14 everything in the light of how we’re
23:16 processing our lives we would get out of
23:19 the way for with a lot of problems we’re
23:21 dealing with and we get through a lot
23:23 faster I totally agree to get out of our
23:26 own way it’s it’s amazing and even if
23:29 you’ll initially just start looking at
23:31 your face just even for a minute just
23:34 time it do not move just look at one eye
23:36 don’t go from one to the other because
23:38 that brings in adrenaline into your body
23:40 but if you just stare into one I get
23:42 past the wrinkles get past that your
23:44 eyebrows need
23:45 or anything like that it’s amazing how
23:49 quickly you can connect to your most
23:52 beautiful features which is your heart
23:54 and soul
23:56 and yet many people are afraid we’re not
23:59 taught to do that to be quiet
24:01:00 but it’s it’s an amazing thing because
24:05:00 so much comes out of the heart and so
24:07:00 much life it’s really the source of our
24:10:00 life and we tend to ignore it or cover
24:13:00 over it yes Tulley grant ahead of saying
24:17:00 not that long ago we chose we’re human
24:20:00 beings not human doings and it’s in the
24:24:00 being that we reconnect to who we are
24:27:00 that’s what we find out courage that’s
24:30:00 where we find our answers and more
24:32:00 importantly it’s where all our
24:34:00 innovation and creation comes from that
24:37:00 most people don’t set take the time to
24:40:00 just be absolutely agree absolutely
24:45:00 and so when we’re living by only
24:47:00 exteriors then we’re squelching the
24:50:00 light and the life right out of us
24:52:00 because we’re not going into that well
24:54:00 and bringing bringing the ideas up and
24:57:00 the life up yes I’ll tell you I could
25:00:00 talk to you all day I feel the same with
25:02:00 you to do it another day after your
25:05:00 show’s over so what’s the biggest
25:08:00 contributor to personal peace uplift and
25:11:00 freedom in your in your expertise so
25:17:00 glad you asked because I wanted to offer
25:19:00 you this final thing before we close it
25:21:00 is forgiveness if anybody is looking for
25:27:00 peace in their life and I’m not – or
25:29:00 peace everywhere it is to go and forgive
25:32:00 you forgive other people and what you
25:35:00 think they did to you and you forgive
25:37:00 yourself and you forgive circumstances
25:39:00 and sometimes you have to forgive the
25:41:00 world so err we’re a contributor to it
25:44:00 then yeah Kieko it just as things come
25:48:00 up and as anxieties come up or fears
25:51:00 come up this is what I’ve done
25:52:00 internally I would always say is there
25:54:00 someone or something that I am angry
25:57:00 about that I need to let go of drop and
26:01:00 forgive and Karen I will tell you it has
26:05:00 been my path to peace and happiness
26:07:00 don’t you feel so much
26:09:00 yeah you do you can feel the weight of
26:13:00 it all just being lifted now you’re not
26:15:00 going to believe this that this is a
26:16:00 fact I love Louise Hays calendars right
26:21:00 today’s calendar he says I keep in mind
26:25:00 that the road to freedom is through the
26:27:00 doorway of forgiveness now on I turned
26:32:00 that over this morning I just thought oh
26:34:00 my god lawyer is going to love that’s
26:38:00 very neat
26:39:00 but it just happened on the day that
26:41:00 we’re actually recording this I just
26:44:00 think it’s so cool it is and I love
26:46:00 those kinds of synergies because what it
26:48:00 does is it reinforces yes this is where
26:51:00 the life is and this is where the energy
26:53:00 is and this is where the positivity is
26:55:00 and this is where we are and boy if I
26:57:00 could live there in those spaces all the
27:00:00 time caring 24/7 I would but I’ll tell
27:03:00 you it’s always my quest to bring more
27:05:00 and more of it more of the inside to the
27:08:00 outside and have a fuller expression of
27:10:00 life so I hope something of what we’ve
27:13:00 shared today I know it was great for me
27:14:00 to listen to and share you and listen
27:16:00 and exchange and I really hope that
27:19:00 there are people listening in today
27:22:00 that will catch the energy and the
27:24:00 spirit and know that what we’re talking
27:26:00 about is so universal that what applies
27:28:00 to one really applies to all differently
27:31:00 I wanna say no one and for us to
27:35:00 understand the fact that we are all one
27:37:00 we all have the same doubts and fears
27:40:00 and and limiting beliefs and we all have
27:44:00 these and it’s just a matter of us
27:45:00 realizing that we may look different
27:48:00 from the outside but we are totally
27:52:00 agree yeah now you have a free gift for
27:54:00 our viewers today so what is that I do I
27:58:00 have a free book from my art of
28:00:00 happiness series I actually have two
28:04:00 that came to mind in the series one of
28:07:00 the books that I thought of for this
28:08:00 audience is a book on influence because
28:11:00 most people feel disempowered and they
28:13:00 don’t realize how no matter who you are
28:15:00 what you do in life you can be an
28:18:00 enormous positive influence on those
28:20:00 around you so that’s book 1 on influence
28:23:00 and the second one is finding your value
28:26:00 what’s your favorite value in life and
28:29:00 how do you live from that space in place
28:31:00 of value so if they want to write to me
28:33:00 Mora my name will be the lease will be
28:36:00 at the bottom earthing rings I’ll do
28:40:00 that okay good you’re so efficient you
28:42:00 must have been a CFO somewhere think
28:50:00 like you know Gandhi University and
28:53:00 getting the Masters of accounting and
28:55:00 and doing everything I’ve done and now
28:57:00 I’m doing this on the road of you know
28:59:00 helping women to actually be who they
29:03:00 are be the manager we want them in
29:05:00 corporate space but to be understanding
29:08:00 all of these concepts not totally
29:10:00 unaware like I was to you sort of think
29:13:00 they don’t fit together but they do fit
29:15:00 together you always use your skills from
29:18:00 no matter what you’ve done along the
29:20:00 road in what you’re doing now I agree
29:24:00 it’s like the life toolbox and that’s
29:26:00 what makes you so great because you’re
29:28:00 gonna end up with skills that the other
29:30:00 people don’t have because you can’t
29:31:00 really get a university degree in life
29:33:00 skills but they certainly help you when
29:35:00 you need them we are so connected
29:37:00 because I cool like some from the time I
29:40:00 left corporate I call it my last
29:41:00 University and I’ve just learned
29:44:00 everything in life’s University and it’s
29:46:00 so true
29:47:00 I’m sorry enjoyed having a chat with you
29:49:00 today Morris I see Karen thank you and
29:53:00 I’m so honored to be one of your first
29:55:00 guests on your new show so I’ll look
29:58:00 forward to it coming out I will be
29:59:00 sharing it and I will be a regular
30:02:00 listener and follower that sounds
30:04:00 fantastic I would love that because this
30:07:00 by said we’re very connected we are we
30:10:00 are so see this world does it make a
30:13:00 difference and this is just part of what
30:14:00 I imagined as a child except I didn’t
30:16:00 have to give it get on an airplane to
30:18:00 visit you we’re right there now on Sun
30:20:00 zoom so it’s fantastic
30:22:00 so all lawyers details up below this
30:25:00 video so please reach out to her as you
30:28:00 can see she’s very approachable but more
30:30:00 importantly she’s very aware and she’s
30:33:00 about helping us to become more
30:36:00 because the more aware everyone comes
30:38:00 the more peace we can find in our
30:40:00 amazing planet and let’s face it the
30:43:00 world is a lot smaller than it was when
30:45:00 we were born so thank you everyone for
30:49:00 watching
30:49:00 and thank you Maura for being an amazing
30:51:00 guest bye for now